"Sister, you were made to rise and heal in this time." ~ 92%
Let me begin this review with a definition and background on myself. In autoimmunity, the immune system gets confused and the body mistakingly attacks its own healthy organs and cells. It can be genetic, triggered by stress or environmental factors. About 80% of people diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder are women. Most common types are rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, alopecia, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, and Multiple Sclerosis. There is no cure but it is treatable. I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disorder three (3) years ago, which prompted my interest in reading any and everything about autoimmunity. So here I am reviewing Autoimmunity and the Good Girls: How Permission to Put Ourselves First Has the Power to Keep Us Well.
Women have been told to be good, put others first, be caretakers and neglect their own needs. This comes at a cost per award-winning filmmaker, activist, and founder of Women Rising, Sara Hirsh Bordo. Lives are compromised and so are immune systems. She funded quantitative research with results showing women raised in caretaker roles (eldest daughters) are disproportionately likely to develop autoimmune diseases.
"The most common reflection women share with me is they had no idea that how they were raised created the body they now live in." ~ 10%
I expected a personal account of the author's own experience with being diagnosed (✔️) along with careful, relevant research supporting the conclusion that firstborn daughters or "good girls" are likely to develop an autoimmune disorder (🫤) and ways to empower or heal in a healthy way (❤️🩹). What I got was an author saying we make our own selves sick; being a good girl growing up creates a compromised immune system in womanhood. Who wants to read that?! While lying on my deathbed the last thing I would have wanted to hear was, "You did this to yourself." And I firmly disagree that my body attacks itself because of how I was raised.
While I appreciate the anecdotes and personal experience that Bordo shared, the tone was very shame-on-you. I fully understand that her experience is not my experience. But there may be readers that take Bordo's word as gospel. This would create the opposite effect of the book's purpose. It lacks an expert's opinion, facts from a medical professional, acknowledgment of other studies, and female empowerment. I was this close 🤏🏾 to DNF'ing but wanted to see if it got better before I stamp it as unrecommended to Bookhearts. I am left uninspired, offended and unheard after reading Bordo's Autoimmunity and the Good Girls.
Even so, I recognize the effort it takes to release a book and that milestone is worth celebrating. So Happy Early Pub Day to Sara Hirsh Bordo! Autoimmunity and the Good Girls will be on shelves June 2, 2026.
Disclaimer: An advance copy was received directly from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. Opinions are my own and would be the same if I spent my hard-earned coins. ~LiteraryMarie
Title: Autoimmunity and the Good Girls
Author: Sara Hirsh Bordo
Published: June 2026
Pages: 304
Edition: Galley
Genre: Health Nonfiction
Rating: 🖤






